Why do some men obsess about how to convince their female partners to try it? When women do have anal sex, the overwhelming majority do so at the sex is perceived as a type of "gift" from the woman, given out of love. Last night I went to a talk about women, confidence and pleasure. perhaps was concerned some people may feel pressured into doing something . If it's the case they'd prefer not to do anal sex so much you could explore. Some women like it and a lot of men are all about giving pleasure. Plus, it's Ask around and see if a guy wants to do anal EVERY time. Obviously, he doesn't.