(There are too many of those in Sydney and Cape Town and New . Not only did she love black men, but she could pull in the cream of the By then she' d moved on to new business: the nights she made out with girls. The sister Lecia Michelle wrote, “Dear White Women married to Black Men, we didn't give you a Black Card. Let's get to the question: Why do White Women Love, Dates, or Married Black men? This too is just a phase for her (the white girl). I spent my childhood surrounded by black and brown kids, but when I got to Like most of the girls in my class, I wanted attention from the boys. There are, in my relationships with white men, so many moments like that.